can any one suggest how to build a healthy relation of one's wife with parents, how do islam consider the misconduct of parents by son and daughter in law
Salaam Alaikum
Well to help a girl in building a healthy relationship with her inlaws is totally on her husband. It is how he talks of them whith her. The more you tell her about your parents regarding respecting them and obeying them then she also would follow your footsteps. Remember Wife's aint always bad its we who make them bad.Sametime you have to give a Equal attantion to your parents and wife specially mother in law as she feels insecured after her arrival. Also remember helping you parents and doing their work in NOT UR WIFE'S RESPONSIBILITY If she is doing it then you should always be thankfull to her. Usually in India and Pakistan Daughter In Law is considered a helping had for parents or a Second Maid this is WRONG and Haraam. She is for you not for everyone in your family. Give her that Love and Care show her that you love her with small surprises then you will see she will have a perfect relationship with everyone in your home.
